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Tuesday, December 6, 2016

Breathe Motherf***er


Tim Ferriss: “If you could put a billboard anywhere and have it say anything, what would be?”

Wim Hof: “Breathe motherf***er!” (I don’t know why I * out letters, it’s not like you don’t know what I’m saying).

And that’s where I got this title from.

The song was originally called “Breathe,” but when I got to the heavy part in the middle, it just fit too well to not use it.

It is the perfect title for this song, and technically, The Wim Hof Method is exactly what this song is all about:

Breathing.

Good ‘Ol O2

The basic idea around the Wim Hof Method is to get the carbon dioxide out of your system, to allow for more oxygen in your system.

How do you do it? By breathing. His technique, specifically, is 30 deep breaths in a session.

The benefits are:

1. Boosted energy levels.
2. Lowered stress levels
3. Strengthening your immune system
4. Faster recovery
5. Improved focus and concentration
6. Improved sleep
7. Mood enhancement
8. Improved circulation

So why would anyone tell anyone else to “breathe mother***er”? Because no matter what you are going through, you have to remember to breathe. All of those benefits happen when you bring in oxygen and release the carbon dioxide. Doing that calms you, refocuses you, allows you to assess the situation with a clear(er) mind, and hopefully deal with the situation in a healthier, more beneficial way.

It helps you deal with……

Bad Days & Bad People

The first step in a solution to everything.

Bad day? Breathe.

Stressed? Breathe.

Assholes? Breathe.

Argument? Breathe.

“It is nothing you can’t handle.”

It is so difficult, in the heat of the moment, or the midst of the crisis, to recognize the fact that you have been in similar situations and made it out ok. Taking a breath gives you a tiny window of reflection to remember that. Does that make your current situation any less difficult? Of course not. It’s called a crisis for a reason. But you made it through before. In fact, you have always made it through. Even when it felt like you were never going to make it through you did it, against the odds, and against your expectations. If you hadn’t you wouldn’t be here today.

This time is no different.

The Power You Give It

If we are honest with ourselves, we can admit that no one makes us feel sadness, anger, fear, or sorrow.

We allow them to. We give them the power.

People are going to do what they are going to do, it is up to you to allow it to affect you or not.

They can push you, pull you, try to tear you down, but you don’t have to let them. You can use all of your strength to ward off their attacks.

It starts with breathing.

In with the good, out with the bad.

You know, hippie stuff.

This song is a reminder from you for you (FYFY). Don’t forget that you are the one that lets negativity in, and you are the one that can keep it out. They can try relentlessly to break you down, and they do, but you never will. You have the power to block them out, to bend but not break, and to stand strong.

It could be better, it could be worse, that’s why you need to take a step back and breathe. Gain some perspective, then move on and move forward.

Breathe Motherf***er


Breathe in,
 it’s nothing you cant handle, no.
 And worrying won’t help it, no.
 
 Slow down,
 take it what’s around you, now
 Everything you need is found.

Chorus

May not be what you want
But you’re never getting more
Than you can handle, no
The cracks are weakening
But you can never break me down,
Oh no

Breathe in,
 You never should be feeling, alone.
 You build the walls, protect your soul.
 
 Don’t look down, you think you’re on the bottom, now?
 The hills are high, but valleys low.

Chorus

Breathe mother***er

Friday, December 2, 2016

Mental Health


Everyone has something.

Whether it is big or small, it is all overwhelming to the person dealing with it.

Alcoholism, depression, ADHD, addiction, schizophrenia, etc.

They are all cognitive disorders that may show signs as we grow up, but we generally don’t get the full effect until we are old enough that we should have known better. At least that’s how it was for me.

Once you realize you have what you have, admit it, or give up, you need to deal with it. “Knowing is only half the battle” — G.I. Joe (no relation to me). What is knowledge without action? I’m not sure, but it’s not good, especially when you are dealing with something as serious as a cognitive disorder. None of them can be taken likely. If you are not actively doing something about it, you are taking it WAY too lightly.

Me

I have ADHD.

The hyper kid in class?

Yes, that was me.

I was the one in the corner all through elementary school because I could not stop talking to whomever was near me. Didn’t matter who, I was going to talk to you, whether you liked it or not. At least I was funny. You may be irritated with me, but I would keep you entertained.

Thank God I wasn’t born 10 years later, or I would have been on Ritalin, or some other shitty drug. 
One that allows you to behave in class but not exactly thrive.

I am not sure about the other disorders, but ADHD is awesome if you can reign it in. There are a ton of perks to having an over-active, hyper creative brain. As long as you are not using it for stupid stuff. 
Or not using it, which then leads to stupid stuff.

If I was born ten years later, I would have known I had ADHD much sooner, but I may have missed out on the benefits of controlling it naturally, through meditation, exercise, and healthy living.

You Can’t Fix What You Don’t Know

‘The more that I know, the more I control.”

Mental Health (song): iTunes, Google Play, Amazon

That line pretty much sums it up for me. Once I found out I had ADHD, two things happened.

1. So many things that I was frustrated with growing up, thinking they were me, and that I was just shitty at this or that, could be explained. Poor test taking? ADHD. Getting in trouble all the time? ADHD. Stressing out during an at-bat in a game, but crushing it when the pressure was off in practice? ADHD. Poor decision making? ADHD.

2. I learned that I didn’t have to be that person ever again. I knew what I had, I learned about it, I applied the knowledge, and audited myself until I was totally on point and could thrive.

I was in control for the first time in my life.

Sifting Through The Ashes

The worst part about recognizing a cognitive disorder too late is there is a mess to clean up. One that you created by not asking more questions sooner, or recognizing that there was even a problem in the first place.

It is pretty much all your fault.

I am not talking s***. It was all my fault too.

If you are on the other side of your issue (the good side I mean), I bet you are pretty astounded that you didn’t notice the issues earlier. Hindsight is 20–20. It is also very humbling.

This is where love comes in so handy.

Having people believe in you is so vital. I am talking about unconditional love. If you are in a position where people don’t believe in you, I am really sorry. I am not sure I would be here if it wasn’t for my wife and family. I had completely messed up and wanted to change so badly. I was on fire to put in the work and make a difference. I don’t really know what I got the second chance in the first place. Maybe she saw it in me, saw that fire, knew I would fix it. Or maybe she just gave me a second chance. Either way, I ran with it.

There are so many people out there that talk a good game and are full of s***. Actions speak much louder than words, especially in a situation like this. You either make the changes or you don’t. There is a best-practices for everything. You are either “best” practicing or you aren’t. It becomes very obvious very early on in the process. Knowing what I know now, I could talk to you and know within 5 minutes if you were ready to change or not. If you make any kind of an excuse, you are not ready, and I feel sorry for your loved ones. The ones that want you to get better. That need you to get better. The ones that see the goodness in you, and all the wonderful things you could be if you would give yourself the chance. Excuses rob you and your family of that. Not taking those actions rob you and your family of that.

Stop making excuses and “get action.”

You know you can do it.

You want to do it.

So do it.

Mental Health

Every day’s a holiday in my, every day’s a holiday in my head.
 Don’t know what I’m gonna get.
Don’t know if it’s worth the risk, but I, swear that I can see some change, in all the things and all the ways,
I swear I’m worth it.
I know I’m worth it.

Don’t you say I can’t change….

Every day is hit or miss.
One step shy of an apocalypse, but I never thought to run away.
That’s a lie, but I’m right here, so try, remember all the little things, that make up all our memories
And know their worth it.
It’s all worth it.

Don’t you say I can’t change……

’Cause i am a cannon ball, and I got my aim.
don’t you say I can’t change……
’cause I am an asshole, ’cause I agree.

But the more that I know,
the more I control.
And everything that you saw in me,
is more than a hope,
it’s bringing me home,
to where i want to be

One day you’ll understand, that you mean more than every single breath.
That I need you, like sun and air.
I just hope that you believe, that I’ve come a long way from the dark, that damn near ripped us both apart, and have the pieces, to bring us peace with

Don’t you say I can’t change……

’Cause i am a cannon ball, and I got my aim.
don’t you say I can’t change……
’cause I am an asshole, ’cause I agree.

But the more that I know,
the more I control.
And everything that you saw in me,
is more than a hope,
it’s bringing me home,
to where I want to be

And I want to be right here.

I belong to you belong to me.
Every place you go this fool will be.
Every day’s another day, to show you all that I can be, everything you’d ever want of me,

And I want to be right here.

Don’t you say I can’t change.
Don’t you say I can’t change.
Don’t you say I can’t change.
Don’t you say I can’t change.

’Cause i am a cannon ball, and I got my aim.
don’t you say I can’t change……
’cause I am an asshole, ’cause I agree.

But the more that I know,
the more I control.
And everything that you saw in me,
is more than a hope,
it’s bringing me home,
to where I want to be

Mental Health (song): iTunes, Google Play, Amazon