Showing posts with label skills. Show all posts
Showing posts with label skills. Show all posts

Tuesday, December 6, 2016

Breathe Motherf***er


Tim Ferriss: “If you could put a billboard anywhere and have it say anything, what would be?”

Wim Hof: “Breathe motherf***er!” (I don’t know why I * out letters, it’s not like you don’t know what I’m saying).

And that’s where I got this title from.

The song was originally called “Breathe,” but when I got to the heavy part in the middle, it just fit too well to not use it.

It is the perfect title for this song, and technically, The Wim Hof Method is exactly what this song is all about:

Breathing.

Good ‘Ol O2

The basic idea around the Wim Hof Method is to get the carbon dioxide out of your system, to allow for more oxygen in your system.

How do you do it? By breathing. His technique, specifically, is 30 deep breaths in a session.

The benefits are:

1. Boosted energy levels.
2. Lowered stress levels
3. Strengthening your immune system
4. Faster recovery
5. Improved focus and concentration
6. Improved sleep
7. Mood enhancement
8. Improved circulation

So why would anyone tell anyone else to “breathe mother***er”? Because no matter what you are going through, you have to remember to breathe. All of those benefits happen when you bring in oxygen and release the carbon dioxide. Doing that calms you, refocuses you, allows you to assess the situation with a clear(er) mind, and hopefully deal with the situation in a healthier, more beneficial way.

It helps you deal with……

Bad Days & Bad People

The first step in a solution to everything.

Bad day? Breathe.

Stressed? Breathe.

Assholes? Breathe.

Argument? Breathe.

“It is nothing you can’t handle.”

It is so difficult, in the heat of the moment, or the midst of the crisis, to recognize the fact that you have been in similar situations and made it out ok. Taking a breath gives you a tiny window of reflection to remember that. Does that make your current situation any less difficult? Of course not. It’s called a crisis for a reason. But you made it through before. In fact, you have always made it through. Even when it felt like you were never going to make it through you did it, against the odds, and against your expectations. If you hadn’t you wouldn’t be here today.

This time is no different.

The Power You Give It

If we are honest with ourselves, we can admit that no one makes us feel sadness, anger, fear, or sorrow.

We allow them to. We give them the power.

People are going to do what they are going to do, it is up to you to allow it to affect you or not.

They can push you, pull you, try to tear you down, but you don’t have to let them. You can use all of your strength to ward off their attacks.

It starts with breathing.

In with the good, out with the bad.

You know, hippie stuff.

This song is a reminder from you for you (FYFY). Don’t forget that you are the one that lets negativity in, and you are the one that can keep it out. They can try relentlessly to break you down, and they do, but you never will. You have the power to block them out, to bend but not break, and to stand strong.

It could be better, it could be worse, that’s why you need to take a step back and breathe. Gain some perspective, then move on and move forward.

Breathe Motherf***er


Breathe in,
 it’s nothing you cant handle, no.
 And worrying won’t help it, no.
 
 Slow down,
 take it what’s around you, now
 Everything you need is found.

Chorus

May not be what you want
But you’re never getting more
Than you can handle, no
The cracks are weakening
But you can never break me down,
Oh no

Breathe in,
 You never should be feeling, alone.
 You build the walls, protect your soul.
 
 Don’t look down, you think you’re on the bottom, now?
 The hills are high, but valleys low.

Chorus

Breathe mother***er

Thursday, October 20, 2016

30 Days Of Genius Blog: Sir Mix-A-Lot


This interview has been the most pleasant surprise so far. I only knew him as the “Baby Got Back” guy, but he is so much more.

I have taken his interview on 30 Days of Genius with Chase Jarvis, extracted the information, and used it to answer common questions by readers just like you, who are looking to take their lives to the next level, or at least a different level than the one they are on.

Please enjoy.

How Can I Be Great At Something?

The first step is you have to WANT something.

This takes some serious self-reflection, because you want to make sure YOU want it. Too many people “like” what they think they are supposed to, and end up unhappy. I started out messing with gadgets and electronics, and it opened doors to everything else. You run in to danger when the foundation is not set on something solid, on something that is truly you, tied to who you are.

Once you figure out what that something is that you want, you can start honing in on your identity. When you are growing up, you don’t really have a sense of who you are. You try on different hats. Some fit, some don’t. Some are good, some get you in trouble. As you have these experiences you start cutting out the things you know are not you so you can focus on the things that are you.

Everyone has a calling. There is something out there that you are supposed to do. You fight it, because different is uncomfortable, especially when you are younger. You are looking for a cookie cutter, easy approach to life. Fight this. There is something out there, you just need to find it. The more you do, the more you explore, the more you create, you start finding things you are good at, things you really enjoy, and that’s where greatness lies.

After I Find That “Something,” What Do I Do?

1. Talk to all the successful people you know.

It doesn’t matter what field they are in, success is success is success. There are bits and pieces that you can take from everyone around you and apply it.

One thing that I found in my discussions is work was work, but it was also leisure. Work is what they loved to do. From the outside it looked like they worked too much. From the inside, they were having a blast. All of that comes from my answer to question one. When you find that something, it changes everything.

2. Work hard.

Our life is our habits, and our habits are our life. Get in to the habit of busting your butt. Chances are you won’t have much money at the beginning, and that’s ok. One thing that I found, but didn’t realize until I got there, was that necessity breeds creativity. When I didn’t have much, I had to work with what I had available to me. Working with different sounds and equipment, taking on tasks because I didn’t have money to hire someone (like MCing my songs, not what I was looking to do. But look what happened!). Once I “made it” and had all the gear I could ever want, I got lazy. I wasn’t as creative. And my work suffered. Appreciate the creativity you will have to develop when you are starting out, when you are striving to make something from nothing. Remember that feeling for later.

Don’t let the amount of work deter you from your dream. If it was easy to be successful, everyone would be successful. Hard work is preparation for a lucky day. Get yourself ready!

Expose your work to as many people as possible, and expose yourself to as much work as possible. It is hard to get a true scope of your ability level until it is compared to other peoples’ work. I am not saying compare your work to others, but compare it (if you know what I mean). I thought we were killing it until I did shows with NWA. It took my vision for what I could be and wanted to be to a whole new level. Without it I would still be thinking small. Exposure forces you to think outside yourself, to something you didn’t even know you could be. You HAVE to give yourself that opportunity.

3. Be you.

No matter what level you get to, stay connected to the real you, the old you. Success can be the nail in your coffin. There is a lot of work that comes after that, but you need to be grounded in who you are.

Knowing who you are will help you pass on things that don’t fit you and focus on the things that are you. Success comes with new opportunities. Low hanging fruit and big paychecks will be tempting. 

You need to make sure you are focusing on the long game. What is your brand? How are you going to grow that brand? Expand your name? Be thinking of that from day one. Chasing the dollar will only lead to heartbreak (and bank account-break).

Success

Once you gain success, you need to figure out how you did it. When you are coming up you are trying anything. Once you reach a certain point, you need to look back and evaluate how you got there, so you can recreate it.

Connecting with the real you will also keep you hungry. Success can breed laziness. Once you are there, success will be much harder to come by. Laziness is a success killer. You have to keep in the chase. You have to keep wanting. Keep striving. You need the journey. That’s the truly satisfying part of it.

Never forget that no matter what your level of success, you didn’t do it alone. Some people will have bigger parts than others, but it is a collective. Never forget those people. Forgetting them is forgetting yourself.

Quotes

“If you are comfortable with your success you won’t have it very long. Remain hungry.”

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