Showing posts with label productivity. Show all posts
Showing posts with label productivity. Show all posts

Wednesday, August 31, 2016

Discipline = Freedom


Jocko Willink (@jockowillink) says this. He is one of the biggest, most intense people I have ever seen, so I want to make sure I give him credit for the quote. He tweets pictures of pools of sweat on the ground from his workouts before I even wake up in the morning, and I get up at 5am.

The dude is a beast.

And more importantly, the dude is right.

Discipline, routine, schedules, they all allow freedom.

It sounds counter-intuitive, I know. I thought the same thing. For years, the more structure, the worse it sounded. I have ADHD. I could feel the walls closing in around me every time I heard the word: structure.

But guess what?

One little thing changed, and like dominoes, the walls fell down.

I had a purpose.

I had a Northern Star.

I had real, true to myself, goals.

And I fell in love with structure.

I think part of the reason we don’t like structure is we don’t give a s*** about what we are doing. 

Work sucks. If we are more or less productive, who cares? We don’t like work anyways. Why would anyone want to get better at something they hate?

Think about that.

Find a focus you love, then apply everything else in this blog.

Come back later if you need to.

Don’t Reinvent The Wheel

The greatest asset that discipline and structure gives is not having to reinvent the wheel every time you need to be productive. It’s a routine.

Imagine that: productivity and creativity a routine? Meaning, you just do it? YES! You just do it.

I don’t have to wait for inspiration?

Nope.

Your routine brings you to the doorstep of creativity and productivity. All you have to do is walk in.

Sounds awesome, doesn’t it?

This “wheel” that we are not reinventing every day will not develop overnight. It is a filtering and auditing system that takes out everything in your day that diverts your productivity and leaves, then adds to, things that increase productivity. I have been auditing myself for almost 2 years, and there are always little tweaks I can make to increase productivity, even if it’s just a little bit better, it’s still better than it was before. Everything counts.

There is a concept in the amazing book “The Art Of Learning” called: Making Smaller Circles. This is essentially what we are doing with our “wheel.” The things you need in order to get in to your productivity “space” start out very big. Over time, you are able to whittle them down without 
compromising your productive and creative output.

Example: My original routine in the morning was: 20 minute meditation, coffee, exercise, warm up writing (usually a Quora answer or two), a couple Italian lessons (I am getting my dual citizenship with the hopes of creating media for companies abroad, giving me a reason to visit more often), then work.

I would start work in a great place mentally and physically, but that is a lot of time needed to get going.

Now, I leave in the meditation as a best practices, and the coffee (mostly because it helps the ol’ bowels get movin’), but I am ready to go in 25 minutes after getting up. In fact, on days when I need to be up at 5am and cranking right away, I can do it, because I have made small enough circles, that just sitting in my work space locks me in to work mode. I can bust out a 1500 word story or blog before breakfast. I mean done, not first draft.

Step One: Environmental Reciprocation

You purposefully create an environment that increases your motivation and creativity, and your environment will reciprocate. You build it up, and it helps build you up. Take control over your environment. Take the time to put things around you that help maximize your creativity. Quotes, pictures, goals, whatever. I have all of my goals on the wall behind my monitor. I have a stimulating wall of CD covers behind me. You can create an environment that allows you to feel like a plasma globe, a ball of energy.

Allow what works for you to be around you.

Step Two: Morning Routines

Start figuring out what works for you. What puts you in the best place mentally to start crushing it? If you are not already meditating, I highly suggest it. I listen to a lot of podcasts with top performers in a variety of disciplines and 90% of them meditate. If you are new to it, apps like Headspace and Calm are a great place to start. I listen to Tara Brach’s guided meditations on iTunes. Whatever works for you, but know that it works.

Mediation: reduces aging in the brain (more gray matter), improves concentration and attention, and reduces anxiety.

Convinced?

I hope so.

What do you eat? It better be healthy. No sugar. That will help you jump up in energy, but it is short lived, causes crashing after a few hours, and in the long run it will make you fat (just speaking the truth). Stick with healthy fats, eggs, veggies, water, and coffee. No artificial sweeteners. It tricks your system in to thinking it is sugar, so even though it doesn’t have the calories, your body reacts like it has sugar in it, so it stores fat regardless. It also breaks down your healthy gut flora in your stomach, which means you are not digesting correctly, which means you are not able to deliver necessary hormones to your system (because they are released in the intestines and colon) like endorphins (which make you happy). Sugar and fake sugar makes you sad and fat, which will then make you even more sad and even fatter. No bueno, all the way around.

Step Three: Rest Of The Day Routines

How do you keep yourself focused?

You are cranking when you start, but how do you take breaks? What things are too distracting? What doesn’t allow you to come back to work in an effective and productive way?

I leave my phone in the other room. It is hard on me, because 50% of my business is creation, and the other 50% is distribution, interaction, etc. But if I want to create content, I need to get that s*** away from me!

I have multiple projects going on at the same time and lists of things I need/can do. That allows me to bounce between projects in case I get stuck on any one thing. It keeps my spirits up and my thoughts clear.

I eat healthy throughout the day and work out in the late afternoon. That is either a great close to my day (not very often) or it is a good break to get the blood flowing, work my body the way my mind has been working all day, and then get back to work.

Step Four: Audit Audit Audit

What is working and what isn’t?

I would love to listen to punk rock, or country, or metal (weird mix I know) all day long, but it is distracting. I can’t write to it. I tried classical, but that is too emotional. Switching to the “Jazz” station on Pandora I found the perfect background music to work to. I have heard others’ use a movie on repeat. Because they are so familiar with the story, it keeps it somewhere in the background mentally, but still in their conscious. It’s funny how sometimes 90% focus is better than 100% on one thing.

Example: I hate cleaning the house, but I have a flood of ideas every time I do. It is similar to running, but I have a pen and pad to write down the ideas unlike running, where I will need to remember the good idea for 5, 6, or 10 miles. They don’t always make it.

Time

Give yourself time. It is simple but not easy (as is everything important in life).

You will know it is something that needs to be remedied when you get mad at yourself for the 30 minutes you wasted. Feel it, embrace it, then change it. It’s as simple as that.

Audit the s*** out of yourself, all the time.

I am going on 24 months of auditing.

There is always something that can be better, more efficient, more productive.

Take the time to find it.

Then start crushing.


Thursday, July 28, 2016

30 Days Of Genius Blog: Tim Ferriss


When the world can look at an individual and collectively say, “How in the hell does he do all that?” You know you are dealing with someone special. Tim Ferriss, the author, blogger, podcast host, TV host, world champion ballroom dancer, angel investor, advisor, and Chinese kickboxing champion shares his thoughts on creating a life that has allowed him to accomplish so much.

I have taken his interview on 30 Days of Genius with Chase Jarvis, extracted the information, and used it to answer common questions by readers just like you, who are looking to take their lives to the next level, or at least a different level than the one they are on.

Please enjoy.

How Do I Reach My Goals?

The first thing you need to ask yourself is, “Am I putting in the time?” It is so easy to make the “I don’t have time” excuse. If you don’t have time, there is no pressure to get off your butt and start producing, is there? Without putting in the time you will never be able to reach any goal worth striving for.

To be clear, it is not finding time, it is making time. It’s not going to be handed to you.

Secondly, you need to ask yourself is, “Am I making this harder than it needs to be?”

People tend to focus on being busy as opposed to being productive. As long as you are moving you are moving in the right direction. Sound familiar? If you are not reflecting on your goals, and your actions to reach those goals, you may be moving, but it is most likely in a circle.

Do not put in more work than is necessary to accomplish the goal. I ask myself, what would it look like if it were easy? That helps me filter through my thoughts and actions to a more streamlined approach.

If you are having a hard time getting started at all, you are probably looking at the project as a whole, which is daunting and intimidating.

Start small.

Give yourself smaller goals to reach each day. As long as those actions help you reach the larger goal, you are in good shape.

Writing a book? Have a quota of 2 pages a day. If you feel like writing more, go for it, but you have already had a successful writing day. The trick is to rig the game so you can win. The more you win, the more you do, the more you do, the more you get done. This will build more confidence, while at the same time build momentum for the overall project. Before you know it, you will have a book!

Obviously the book is just an example. Whatever your project is, if you are having trouble starting, work backwards, find the things you need to be doing at the beginning, then set low, highly achievable goals to reach every day that build towards the finished product. You will be blowing past your quotas in no time because you will be building up the momentum, your creativity, and the fire to get it done.

It all boils down to habits, and forming those habits. You need to have things in place in your life to help you form good habits. Routines are HUGE for me. Why get up every morning and reinvent the wheel? Have a system in place that puts you in the best mental and physical space to work. You will save time in the long run, have a clearer head, and get more done. Have a routine in the mornings and evenings. Make sure you are getting good sleep, it is the foundation of a productive day.

It sounds counter-intuitive, but the more crazy and neurotic you are, the more you need routines and structure. So get them in place ASAP.


Practice systems thinking. Not every project needs to be a win, but it needs to add to the bigger picture. Make sure that the various aspects of the projects that you are working on are giving you skills, or a network, that you can use for the next project, and the bigger picture.

How Do I Become Successful?

Success is a state of mind.

What is your definition of success?

This is different for everyone, so I will give you some general advice.

Remember:

Good work is the best SEO in the world. If your product or service sucks, then your marketing and advertising will only be letting EVERYONE know that you suck. Do good work. You need to be different, and you need to be better. Blending in will do you and your goals no good.
One very important way to be successful is to feel successful. Celebrate the small wins along the way. If you don’t enjoy them on the way up, you won’t be able to enjoy them at the top. I have a container called, The Jar Of Awesome. Cheesy name, but it comes in very handy on days when I am down. Every day I write down something I am grateful for that day, and I put it in the jar. If I have a day where I am not feeling so hot, or very confident, I can go back and reminisce about all the wonderful things that have happened to me. We tend to forget the good things along the way. This is an easy and effective way to remind ourselves when we need it most.

It is also important to practice mindfulness. If you are constantly thinking about the next thing, you are never enjoying the thing right in front of you. I use TM (transcendental meditation), but there are apps like Headspace and Calm that work wonderfully as well. This helps me stay present during the day, and react to things appropriately as opposed to emotionally. Being in the moment has huge benefits, especially if you are in high stress situations. Emotional decisions can be disastrous.

How Do I Continue To Get Better?

Push yourself.

Try new things.

Give yourself the chance to see things with beginner’s eyes. The more you stretch your mind and learn new things, the more you can bring back to what you already know. It will give you more perspective to add, which is growth an-and-of itself.

Put constraints on the things you produce. Get out of your comfort zone and you will continually grow. Once you learn to do a lot with little, you can do a lot with a lot. Constantly looking for new perspectives, new ways to attack problems will give you a bigger arsenal to work with later. Give yourself that freedom. Force growth.

Be creative. Don’t take things too seriously, it is a creative killer. Be absurd. Do things just for the hell of it (within reason of course).

Quotes

“With a type-A personality it is easy to feel like if you are not burning the candle at both ends you are not doing a good job”

”Focus on your unique abilities, and work won’t feel hard or forced.”

“You are the average of the 5 people you surround yourself with”

Tim Ferriss Links


Chase Jarvis Links


Joey Links

Friday, June 3, 2016

How Do You Deal With All The Stress?


Life is stressful.

There is no way to avoid it.

Not the most reassuring intro is it?

It will get more positive, I promise.

There is no way to avoid it, true. But when there is something you can’t change, you change your perspective, and change your strategy. For all you entrepreneurs out there, you pivot.
That’s what we are going to do here.

We are going to take a little perspective, mix it with some new strategies, and voila! The stress will be minimized, we will be happier, life will be easier.

But first…….

What Is Stress, and How Does It Affect Your Health?

**if you don’t care about the sciency stuff, skip down to the next set of stars.

In layman terms, stress is the “fight or flight” triggered in our sympathetic nervous system when we are faced with an overwhelming situation. Millions of years ago, it was to run away from lions. Today, there are no lions, but we still have the same response to our daily stresses. Your body releases adrenaline, norepinephrine, and cortisol. (Sorry to get a little nerdy on the vocab. I am not a doctor, but my brother is, so, I am pretty sure that counts in some countries, right? No? Oh, well.) Basically, adrenaline and norepinephrine release hormones that allow for a burst of energy and an increased heart rate. Cortisol maintains body fluid balance and blood pressure while downregulating bodily functions that are not necessary at the time (i.e. reproduction, immunity, digestion, and growth).
Like I said, this is all awesome if you are stressed out every once in a while, running from lions, escaping a burning building, things like that. In the most extreme cases, this can save your life. It increases blood flow to the brain for optimal processing to give you the best chance to get out of whatever situation you find yourself in.

But like everything else, too much of a good thing can be bad, especially when it’s not a life or death situation. Stupid evolution moving too slow.

And this is no different.

Stress causes a response in the body that is manipulating your central nervous system. Too much stress too often can lead to: depression, insomnia, anxiety, hypertension, over-eating, undereating, digestive problems (even if you aren’t puking, or pooping, you may not be breaking the foods well enough to absorb nutrients), tight muscles leading to back and shoulder pain, headaches, etc., a lowered immune system, and reproductive issues.

Whew. That’s a lot.

What makes it worse, is once all of those things are off, they send signals to your brain that things are off, which perpetuates the problem! It’s a cycle of doo doo!

** So basically, none of you s*** works right (no pun intended. Well, maybe a little).

Dealing With Stress

Since we already know we can’t avoid stress, we need to make sure we are not adding to it. Then we can start removing some of it from our lives. It is amazing how just knowing that you are dealing with your issues is a relief in-and-of-itself. There is comfort in knowing that you are handling it, that you are in control.

There are steps. It’s a process. This is what worked for me. Adjust it to suit you.
Mitigate the stress, then manage it, so you can control it.

1. Don’t Add To It

Diet: When you are stressed out, your body is on fire. Not literally of course, unless you are stressed out because you are actually on fire, then none of this stuff you are about to read is going to help you anyways, just find water. You aren’t releasing the proper chemicals at the proper time. You are an inflamed roller coaster of rollercoasterness. Don’t add to this hot mess.

Avoid inflammatory foods:

- Trans fats
- Sugar
- White bread (which basically breaks down in to sugar)
- Alcohol
- Are you making a sad face yet? Don’t worry, it’s not fun at first, but you will feel better.
- Milk and other dairy products
- MSG
- Gluten (which is just all the other bread)
- Canola Oil, or other cheap vegetable oils
- Artificial additives
- Processed grains: white flour, etc.

Basically, crap you shouldn’t be eating anyways.

Eat inflammatory reducing foods!

- Fatty fish (salmon, tuna, sardines) or if you don’t like fish take cod oil supplements
- Dark, leafy greens (kale, spinach, etc.)
- Nuts, almonds, walnuts (great for snacks so you don’t eat other crap when you are on the go, like if you work a 12 hr. shift or something)
- Colorful vegetables (bell peppers, eggplant, Brussel sprouts)
- Legumes, black beans, pinto beans
- Beets (they taste like dirt, but they expand your capillaries and make you feel amazing!!! Juice them though, don’t eat them like an apple. Yuck!)
- Ginger (great for your stomach and digestion)
- Turmeric (great for inflammation. People use this as a natural alternative to Advil)
- Garlic
- Olive oil
- Blueberries, raspberries, strawberries

When you get your gut right, your body is able to release the proper chemicals. You want to be calm, be happy? Well your gut releases serotonin. Basically, your happiness! Help the release of serotonin in your system by cleaning up your gut.

If you are interested, add me on Snapchat (JustOneJoey or https://www.snapchat.com/add/justonejoey) and snap me. I will be happy to show you different recipes I use to help you in this process. Just ask! I am here to help people!

Can you feel the roller coaster slowing down yet? Just heading in the right direction feels good!

2. Sleep/Meditation: These really should be separate, but just in case you work a crazy job and are not able to get the proper amount of sleep (7–9 hours a night), meditation can actually help with side effects from your lack of sleep. It’s like a two for one with meditation!

Sleep: There are two phases: pre-sleep and sleep-sleep (not scientific terms in case you were wondering). In order to get the most out of your sleep you need to prep it. If you are stressed out, you are already releasing too much cortisol. If you are producing cortisol you can’t be producing melatonin. Melatonin is what helps you get restful, recovery sleep. No melatonin = no recovery. No recovery = probably more stress, tiredness, irritability, etc. It makes things worse. It’s a cycle of poo, remember?

A way to stop the production of cortisol is to eliminate blue light. It is VERY easy, you either turn off every electronic device in your house for a couple hours before you go to bed or you get blue light blocking glasses. Which are really, just orange glasses (http://geni.us/4488). Super cheap, super effective. Put them on before bed (3 hours would be ideal) and you are ready to go! As long as you don’t stress yourself out with other stuff, like: intense TV shows, scary books, arguing, hanging out with people you don’t like, etc.)

One strategy I have heard over and over again is taking a hot, Epsom salt bath before bed. Help your body remove toxins, relax in the water (mediate in there too!) and release the day before you go to bed.

The better prep, the better sleep. Remember that.

Sleep is healing time. Your body needs to recover from today so it can do it all over again tomorrow. This is not a problem for you anymore because you are eating better, sleeping better, and soon you will be meditating too!

Now that your pre-sleep is locked in, you can focus on the sleep-sleep.

A. Black out your room. I mean, not even the light from a clock. It sounds crazy, but your skin can absorb light, which will then compromise your sleep. How much? I don’t know. But we are shooting for the stars here, so stop asking so many questions and just black out your room.
B. Either no noise, or white noise. Not noise from a white person, something soothing like the ocean, or wind in the trees. You know, hippie stuff.
C. Wear eye covers and ear plugs if you have to.
D. Keep the room under 70 degrees Fahrenheit (21 or 22 Celsius. I don’t really know. I’m American. Sorry everyone else in the world). Preferably 65–67 Fahrenheit.
With the pre sleep and the better sleep-sleep, you should feel much better in the morning, which will help carry you throughout the day, which will be a stress reducer in itself. Poor sleep is horrible when you are stressed out. It is a downward spiral if you don’t get a hold of it.

Mediation: I do this every morning. When I am having a rough day I do it when I wake up and right before I go to bed. Besides working out, it is the number one thing I do (and eat healthy of course) where I notice the impact on my well-being throughout the day. Research shows that people who meditate regularly are able to switch off parts of the brain associated with anxiety, schizophrenia, attention deficit, and hyperactivity disorder and other problems. #mindblown.

What you are doing when you mediate regularly is you are switching from the busy beta wave state to an alpha wave state, the state that precedes sleep. This activates the parasympathetic nervous system, allowing the body to slow down and the brain to regenerate. It only takes 10–15 minutes of meditation to feel the benefits. Think about that. It’s basically a power nap. One that rests your brain, your thoughts, and helps you process where you’ve been that day and where you are going. You can do this on your breaks at work! How f’ing helpful is that?!?! I know!!

15 minutes a day! That’s it. Or 30 minutes if you are doing it before bed also (highly recommended). It is a little tricky getting in to it, figuring out what works for you, but there are places you can go for help. Two apps that are perfect for busy people, that just need a 10–15 break in their day, but don’t have time to figure it all out are: Calm and Headspace. You sit down with your smart phone, plug in the headphones, and boom, you are meditating. My sister uses Headspace and absolutely loves it, but I have heard amazing things about Calm as well.

Another route to go is with Tara Brach and her guided meditations. You basically pick the amount of time you want to spend meditating, find a file that fits that space, and go to town. She will guide you through a complete meditation, what to focus on, what to feel, and lead you all the way to the end. No muss, no fuss.

Once you get used to meditating, as you find yourself in a stressful situation during the day, it will eventually take as little as a deep breath to center yourself and go on with your day. Again, this takes time, but you start to feel the effect immediately.

As a little bonus, just to help center yourself in the beginning (and you will start to internalize all of this, which will make it much easier), use positive self-talk. You don’t need to say it out loud (unless you are super secure in yourself), but repeat positive affirmations. Literally, tell yourself:

“This is just a moment”
“This is just one incident”
“This isn’t personal”
“I love myself. I know I do a good job. I am ok.”
“Don’t let work stress come home with me. I have a wall.”
“This is what I prepared for. This is why I eat well, sleep well, and meditate, to be able to handle something like this.”
“I only have ‘x’ amount of hours before I can relax.”

One thing that I noticed was once I had a structure in place, it made every ‘dip’ in my day easier to handle, because I knew I was doing all the right things, and I knew that I had something in place that would come up soon to make me feel better (i.e. working out, a healthy dinner, family time, etc.). If it was really bad, I would use the positive self-talk. It’s not a light switch, but it works, especially if it is something you use regularly.

We are creatures of habit and conditioning. If you put in healthy conditions, both physically and mentally, you are conditioned to be ok. There is a lot of comfort in knowing that you are doing your best, not leaving anything on the table.

Here is the article I wrote on structure and process. It is called, “The Process Of Happy,” It repeats some things that I am putting down here, but goes in to more depth with others.

3. Remove Stress

Now that you are sleeping well, taking better care of your health, and meditating every morning, you are starting to feel a lot better. Now is when you can fine-tune your life.

Eliminate unnecessary stresses.

Really, unnecessary people.

You can’t really avoid the people you work with, but you are mediating, and you are able to bring yourself down when you get stressed out, so that is not a huge issue. You are tired from your long day at work, but you can handle it. But on your days off? Do you really want to spend your Saturday with people that you don’t like? Hell no! So don’t.

We have added some things to your plate to deal with stress, now you need to go through your life and audit the other stresses, then remove them. Family excluded because it’s family, but don’t spend time with people that don’t make you happy. You may have to have some tough conversations, or you may never have conversations ever again. This is your life we are talking about. This is your health. Your family’s health. Your kids’ health. Maybe your future kids’ health. Make sure everything is prioritized correctly so you are focusing on what you should be focusing on.

If you have any questions please find me on social media. All the links are below. You can also ask directly in the comments. However you feel comfortable communicating, I can accommodate.

Hope you all have a great day.

Remember that YOU are in control, but you have to take the reins. Yeehaw!